I have looked through your application, and I am happy to say that as of this message, you have been added to our global whitelist! Feel free to check out our discord if you have any questions, need help or just want to hang out. Hopefully revelation can get you back into the swing of thaumcraft!
We have a time frame that we respond to applications in because it is unrealistic to expect staff to be available 24/7 to respond to applications. Additionally, applications that need additional review/discussion between staff to determine if we accept or deny may take a while longer. Your friend's application was one such app, and ultimately our staff team decided to decline her. I apologize for the inconvenience, but I wish you both the best of luck finding a more suitable server for you and your friend to play on. I can absolutely recommend any one of our affiliated communities that do not have whitelist requirements: Tasty Node Gaming Network